Anonymous asked: I always thought I was 100% rational and fully advocate letting my boyfriend do as he does, but I get insanely jealous when he talks frequently to other single women and I have no clue why - I talk to other single men, they even tell I'm good-looking (to which I respond "thank you" and leave as is) and he says nothing. I haven't told him I get jealous because I get scared he...
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I are long-distance and it's understood that we both pleasure ourselves, but I feel guilty for watching porn and I don't know why - should I feel guilty for watching other people fuck?
Anonymous asked: Hi, Sara. I'm turning 25 years old in two months and am still living at home with my family. I'm wondering if I 1) Need to find another place to live, or 2) Get a job to put aside money to find my own place?
deadletterstolivegirls asked: Sara, I have trouble with the women on okcupid. They don't seem interested in writing me back. What am I doing wrong? My tumblr has some examples of my failures.
Sleepless in Oslo
I’m in Oslo for a couple of different shows. First one went well — I only had to do 15 minutes, and somehow I managed to make them laugh even though I talked about terrorism. Second show is tonight and I’m nervous. It’s comprised of different stories I’ve told onstage before in San Francisco, Austin, New York, and Los Angeles. It’s called “Love and Other...
Anonymous asked: In the past year, 7 of my coworkers have died of mostly stress related causes - am i paranoid for wanting to leave my job? Because i'm young and yolo, ya know?
Anonymous asked: What do you do when your boyfriends exes (yes plural) are trying to get in your business via internet. As in, comment on pictures of you and your boyfriend and like pics of you that other people post. If they were cool girls, trust me, I'd be all about being their friends. They have ill intentions and want attention. I just want them to forget we exist.
CALLING ALL DUDES WHO ARE INTO WOMEN'S RIGHTS!
READ BELOW AND THEN EMAIL SARA@SARABENINCASA.COM BY TUESDAY, MAY 7! I’m writing an article for XOJane about a subspecies of dude I call “the Brominist.” It’s obviously incredibly reductive and silly, but it’s actually a compliment. The Brominist regularly engages in one or more stereotypically “manly” pursuits — sports, the building of things,...
Anonymous asked: (1/2) After years of avoiding relationships, dating and any kind of interaction with the opposite sex that required more than a night due to the realization of a my very needy-clingy personality, I've decided to start dating again. I went out on five dates with this guy, we still talk (aka text), I've invited him to hang out (twice) he was on a trip and now I'm just obsessing why...
Anonymous asked: I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and it's going really well. The only problem is that he kinda dislikes the idea of oral, whereas I fucking love it; he also gets conscious of how his dick would taste because he hasn't been circumcised. I've never asked him to try it and I've never tried to give him a blow job because I don't want to push him into do something...
Anonymous asked: So, I found out my boyfriend added one of his exes on to his buddy list without intentions of speaking to her, I guess he was curious. They were mostly just friends. They had dated for years and had sex once. He chose her over me a long time ago, but it still bothers me that he even wonders about her. I know ultimately, I'm just very insecure. He's not the cheating or scandalous type,...
Glennis McCarthy: Exciting News! →
glennismccarthy: This may only be exciting to me (and my mom), but I’ma share it anyway… I’m going to beauty school! As my friend Kate said, “You are reverse Frenchie!” I’m so, so, SO EXCITED. What prompted this? Well, 14 years ago I almost went to cosmetology school. Instead, I went to nail school and then…
Anonymous asked: I'm interested in doing stand up but how do I know if what I write is funny?
Anonymous asked: Innocently enough, my long-term girlfriend and I talked about the possibility of getting married. At one point she said that she doesn't want to because she feels that I'll eventually want to have kids* (which she doesn't) and then we'll have to get a divorce. In the moment, I took the comment in stride and kept the discussion going, but I was it vexed me in hindsight....
Reese Witherspoon Arrest Transcript Read By 1990s... →
The most important video about Elle Woods you will ever watch.
cabotcovewriter asked: What happened to the four Agorafabulous vids on Youtube? I wanted to share your fantastic Sicily story with a friend, but found they were no longer available. This really made me sad tonight knowing I couldn't watch it again either. P.S. Looking back, I am still super jealous of you considering who has joined you in the bathtub.
brakstri asked: Hope you are having a nice night :)
Totally hot sexy uncensored video of me and my twin sister!!!
geekrants asked: Do you do Transcendental Meditation?
neuralhousekeeping asked: Probably a no-brainer, but will you be watching the MM season premiere, dollface?
Anonymous asked: Why was Sylar from heroes walking behind the Jeri lady during your thingy?
daniellebrown asked: Just listened to the Mental Illness Happy Hour episode you were featured on. Good stuff! Very funny and relatable. Thanks for sharing!
anxietysurvivor asked: I'm listening to you on the mental illness happy hour right now! I can relate to your story so much. I am a college student right now with anxiety disorder and it sucks so much. Thanks for sharing your story with us. <3
Anonymous asked: I have a toxic mother who always make me feel obligated to help her. It seems the more space I try to get the worse she tries to make me feel. She keeps saying "that's what family does." What can I say to separate myself from someone so controlling?
Anonymous asked: Hi Sara, so I'm bipolar, and for years I was on the perfect medication cocktail for the problem (Wellbutrin + Lamictal) but lately I've found myself in another serious tailspin. I've been having quicksilver-fast manic and depressive swings on an almost daily basis. I have a talk therapist in addition to a psychiatrist but nothing seems to help anymore and, generally, I get the...
Anonymous asked: I'm 22 year old male, and in exactly 7 days, I'll be 23. I've never had sex with a woman (I had a girlfriend at one point and she was wonderful, but sex never seemed on the cards for her, I dunno why) so I'm a bit nervous and skittish about it. I feel like ladies my age will expect me to have experience by now. How do I let a potential ladyfriend know about my lack of...