I’ve spent the past 7 1/2 years sans sex. I’m feeling that I have the same insecurities one might have when losing your virginity. That might be OK if you’re 16 or 17, but I’m 30. Even without the break I’m pretty inexperienced. I sort of feel like Andy in ‘The 40-Year Old Virgin’, which Judd Apatow said was loosely about his post-virginity virginity. I don’t feel like all 30 year olds should be sex wizards, but I feel I should at least a little bit of my way around the bedroom. Any advice?

October 4, 2012

Anonymous asked: I've spent the past 7 1/2 years sans sex. I'm feeling that I have the same insecurities one might have when losing your virginity. That might be OK if you're 16 or 17, but I'm 30. Even without the break I'm pretty inexperienced. I sort of feel like Andy in 'The 40-Year Old Virgin', which Judd Apatow said was loosely about his post-virginity virginity. I don't feel like all 30 year olds should be sex wizards, but I feel I should at least a little bit of my way around the bedroom. Any advice?

Read up! Study, young man/lady. It’s a great time to read books like “Moregasm” or “The Guide to Getting It On.” This is your study period!

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