You CAN be in love again. Someone recently said to me, “Love always wins” and by that she means that we always love again, even when we think it’s impossible. It may take a few years, but it happens. I’d say don’t marry this gal, but do enjoy seeing her. If she asks if you think it’s going to be a big committed marriage type thing, be honest and say no. It’s you, it’s not her, etc.