Anonymous asked:
I've been seeing a woman for a few months, we've been on 20some dates, I like her, I enjoy being with her, and the sex is great. But I'm definitely not in love with her. She's not a rebound but I am definitely still affected by my last breakup and I'm legitimately concerned that I may not be able to be in love anymore. Like I lost that capacity. So, in your opinion, how long do I wait for that feeling of real love? Or do I give up and settle for comfortable?
You CAN be in love again. Someone recently said to me, “Love always wins” and by that she means that we always love again, even when we think it’s impossible. It may take a few years, but it happens. I’d say don’t marry this gal, but do enjoy seeing her. If she asks if you think it’s going to be a big committed marriage type thing, be honest and say no. It’s you, it’s not her, etc.
