Anonymous asked:
Hey Sara! I've just started seeing someone I find super hot. We've had sex a couple times and it has been fantastic - I think mutually so. Yum. Added bonus: I super-duper dig the non-sexy elements about her (i.e. she's super smart, we have fantastic conversations, and I just enjoy being with her). All that said, we're both being pretty cautious emotionally. Any thoughts on how I might avoid fucking this up or worrying too much about it? My biggest concern is getting too excited, too quickly.
Don’t see her or talk to her constantly. Try and restrain yourself from texting her every five seconds, unless she does the same thing to you. If she seems to be as excited about you as you are about her, then just enjoy yourself and stop worrying. It’ll work out or it won’t. Either way, you’re having fun right now, right?
