Anonymous asked: (1/3) I just read one of your other asks, and now I'm ridden with guilt. I'm scared I'm delusional about a possible sexual assault. Just before losing my virginity, he tried to go down on me and I said stop, and he didn't, until I finally pushed him off and he sorta joked that he thought we had a safe word (we didn't).
Bottom line: you said stop, he didn’t. That’s a violation of your safety and I think you ought to regard it as such. But your current boyfriend must be told in no uncertain terms to respect your privacy and not start shit with the other fellow.